I find myself using master/replica instead of master/slave when talking about replication of relational databases simply because "slave" here is a very coarse metaphor. I don't get the drill about blacklist/whitelist though.
Btw, suggested reading material: https://cogling.fandom.com/wiki/Sapir-Whorf_Hypothesis
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